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The capacity to text or to tweet or even to simply write on someone’s wall surface allows you to flirt and tease without there ever being a “what-exactly-is-this-relationship” moment

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The capacity to text or to tweet or even to simply write on someone’s wall surface allows you to flirt and tease without there ever being a “what-exactly-is-this-relationship” moment

Concern 2: Is There “Too Fast” in Christian Dating?

Is there any such thing as “too quick” in Christian relationship? How will you determine if a dating relationship is going too rapidly emotionally, or too soon toward wedding?

My goal is to be genuine careful of saying there was such a thing as “too fast.” The things I prefer to ask is this: What’s driving the rate? If simple real attraction or some type of emotive, frilly, this-is-the-one weirdness is driving the rate, then, yes. In the event that relationship is outpacing familiarity with character, reputation, and familiarity with godliness, then that is much too quick.

“Godliness is sexy to godly people.”

But then speed isn’t a big factor if you are in a context in which you have watched the person’s godliness, you have marveled at their character, you have rejoiced in what God has done in them and through them.

We’ve a staff individual right here whom married and met her spouse in just a matter of months. He had been watched by her do ministry in the Village. She knew their reputation. Just what drove the speed ended up beingn’t a flare-up of thoughts — it wasn’t a fear of loneliness, or desperation, like possibly this might be my only shot. None of this. Instead, there is understanding of their faithfulness to Jesus, their need to provide the father, along with his severity in regards to the plain things of Jesus. (more…)