Yes, There are people who have successful life commitments that are long ‘rebound’ relationships. But personally i think like those relationships do not represent a genuine rebound. Personally I think a rebound is really a relationship you rush into that makes you’re feeling pleased and allows you to your investment emotions of unhappiness and unworthiness you felt times prior to starting the relationship that is new. Personal understanding is a requirement to enable two different people to help make any relationship work with the term that is long you cannot expect your lover to function as the single way to obtain your delight and self-worth.
In addition concur that there clearly was this type of thing as love addiction. We have never skilled it because I’ve an avoidance attachment style, but I experienced an excellent buddy who constantly wondered why his relationships finished therefore poorly once they finished right after the ‘honeymoon’ phase ended up being over. But he’d just leap into another ‘love addicted’ relationship or situation to feel desired and required once more without learning what the issue ended up being. (more…)